"A Mourning Moment" by Bob Willis

Covid-19

Because of these articles each morning I have heard from grievers around the world. I am humbled by the response, and determined even more to support grievers and attempt to soften the pain of loss. The pandemic of COVID-19  seems to have a different impact upon grievers. Here is a list of what I have heard, or things implied through the actions and attitudes of those who have suffered a loss:

•  the worst has already happened to me.
•  there are things we cannot control
•  there are selfish and self-centered people everywhere
•  no one can fix the pain
•  nothing is surprising anymore
•  what else can I lose? My heart is gone.
•  everyone has an opinion
•  I have already faced the unknowns in life.
•  our only hope is in God

Do you have something to add to the list? How has your grief experience impacted the way you respond to the pandemic?

Bob Willis, author 
"A Guide for Grievers"