"A MOURNING MOMENT" By bob willis

From filing system to piling system

Grief can take us from a 'filing' system to a 'piling' system. Many change from being a very organized, punctual, and confident person to a very un-organized, always late, person who doubts everything. That is grief!
A loss can upset normal routines and lifestyles. It is common to lose interests and desires with things that were once very important. The focus on details in life can change to the point that entire days and events can be overlooked.